Why Spend On A Man?
Many sisters not only give their goodies to the fellas these days, they also make it rain on these men. Many women are guilty of this, but the madness has got to come to an end because it is not helping these guys to man up and hustle harder. It is making them super duper lazy ladies!
Every man out there needs to be absolutely and 110% independent in order to bring a dependent into this world. Pampering them with your money won’t get them there. Then you wonder why some of these men will bill out on fatherhood in a heartbeat? How the heck do you expect him to take care of his dependent when he has been your dependent in the first place? You ladies are tripping! You ladies are digging your own graves by spending on men. If you are spending on that man and being the source for his income, your life is a bad check waiting to bounce and he won’t be able to assist you when you need him to.
Forget the cheap statement most brothers use to justify the reason why they would be with a girl “I need a girl who can hold me down”. Well my question is if you as a man cannot hold yourself down, how the heck will you be able to hold a family down? Can somebody please explain the logic behind this whole “hold me down” shenanigan? Sadly, a lot of women out there take that cheap intimidating comment to heart and would do anything to validate their worthiness to be with these men. Listen; if he cannot hold himself down, he won’t hold a family down.
In fact, some ladies do it to buy his attention and keep him around. If a man is only staying with you because you are spending on him, all you have in your possession is a live dildo because girlfriend his motive of being there is money instead of personal interest based on unconditional love. The moment you stop spending on him, your term of using that live dildo will be terminated.
Sadly, there are also ladies who will put the welfare of their kids on the back burner for the sake of holding a man down. That is just unacceptable and a cruel thing to do to a child. Never rob your child/children of adequate care because of a man. A grown able body male who is healthy and capable of leading a nation is not to live off a woman’s sweat. It is a disgrace to manhood.
Actually, it is not a good idea for either a male or a female to attract and keep an opposite sex using money. It is not a realistic objective! That person will only stick around because of the money and loving you for who or what you are will be the least of their reasoning. You cannot place a monetary value on LOVE; if so, it will be the most valueless and cheapest love you will ever experience.