The 4 Stages of a Relationship
Now I just had to get into this because the fellas are getting way too much goodies at the beginning stage of relationships. They want it on the first day, and as often as they can get it before they ask what your favorite color is or what you love doing.
Most often, they’re not worried about getting to know a cotton picking thing or two about you. Majority of them, especially those ones with big penis feel that hey; I’m a sexual prowess, I know how to work it, I’m the ladies man, the ladies need this W.O.M.D and they can’t do without it.
Well, I can’t deny that every lady out there would love to have her a sexual prowess, but is it worth it to allow a man who probably won’t stay in your life the opportunity to just wear that thing out before marriage?
Even if you guys are sure about each other, your virjayjay isn’t supposed to be any man’s Burger King menu until he gets married to you. Why? Because only your husband deserves to eat that thing regularly. On top of that, these brothers will have you doing everything a wife would do while you guys are only getting to know each other. Ridiculous! So ladies, try your hardest to follow these four stages of a relationship that I’m about to talk about or you gonna mess around and lose that grip you need to keep for your future husband’s satisfaction in bed.
I don’t care if his swag is irresistible and all that…listen; as a lady, a man values you the most if you make him work hard to get a taste of your peaches. A man can do all his dirt; at the end of the day, he will settle for class instead of trash. Listen to your mamas little mamas.
STAGE 1: The Dating Stage
The dating stage is the stage when both parties haven’t met each other’s parents or any family member. This is the most critical stage for the fellas because this is when you guys aught to impress that lady with all those Mr. gentleman qualities in order to make her feel very special. I’m Not saying that a man shouldn’t always be a gentleman, but trust and believe that some dudes can be a total jerk during the primary stages of a relationship.
During this stage, there will be no kissing and the man is not to ask the girl if he could come over, let alone cook for him. That’s totally unacceptable at this stage and sex is also off limits during this stage because both parties barely know each other. It takes time to figure out people’s true colors; so don’t give up the cookies just yet.
Ladies this is the time to also figure out what his intentions are for you. Drag it out a bit and test his patience to see if he’s after your heart or your a**. If he’s after your heart, he will be concerned about being your best friend first. If he’s after your a**, he will make sudden sexual moves in a desperate manner.
STAGE 2: The Boyfriend & Girlfriend Stage
As it entails, this is the stage when both parties proclaim publicly that they are in a relationship. This is when you guys get to meet each other’s parents, other family members, and friends as well. Ladies; you’re nothing to that man if you never get to meet his mama or people close to him!
At this stage, give him the chance to feel your lips. Allow him to kiss you, but sex remains off limit. The both of you are on the verge of getting to find out more about each other; a lot more to help you determine whether this is the partner you wanna spend the rest of your life with. He could be a mama’s boy, his family could be full of classic drama, or he could be your cousin. You never know; so keep sex out of the picture during this stage.
At this stage, he is still not allowed to come over or request some home-cooked meals from you. None of that! You guys are pretty much still dating, but have taken it a notch up by informing families and friends. He should still be pampering you and making you feel special if he’s truly after your heart.
STAGE 3: The Fiance Stage
Ladies and gentlemen, this is when you’re partially sure that this is who you wanna spend the rest of your life with; so of course it’s time to let him taste the thing. Yet, do not give it to him on a regular basis because he is not your husband. Give it to him only twice a month. He may also come over during this stage, but you are still not obligated to cook for him, do his laundry, and all that crap. Nope! Leave all that for when he makes you his wife.
STAGE 4: The Marriage Stage
Well, we have reached the most important stage. Once a lady reaches this stage with a man, she is to give him her all plus more. Let him enjoy everything he worked so hard for. That thing is officially his and it has been documented in heaven as such.
NOTE: The significance of these stages is that, it will make it nearly impossible for the fellas to use good wife material women as their side-chicks. It will be nearly impossible because if a man has to wait until he puts a ring on it to drop those undies, he will have to mean business. And for those men who are already married or engaged, they won’t stand a chance with their games and the reason is obvious. A man who is already married or engaged can’t take you to meet their mama. So not happening.
These rules will work in the best interest of women who don’t wanna be taken for granted. Though there will always be women who just wanna have fun with men of similar interest, at least the serious ones won’t fall victim to foul play.