She’s Still The Woman You Married
Physical beauty is captivating when we all are young and it drives us to be attracted to the ones we deeply fall in love with. However, after years of dealing with the ups and downs in our relationships, the stress can take a toll on our bodies including our mental and physical well-being. For women, the years of childbearing takes a greater toll on their physique. Though the ruins of a woman’s physique due to childbearing can be avoided with routine exercises, the men aught to understand that childbearing can lead to a lot of chemical and metabolic changes/imbalances in women’s body.
Some men out there will not date a lady who is not physically attractive; it’s their preference. It’s not a crime to go for what compliments your taste because at the end of the day, that’s the person you will spend the rest of you life with. Well the thing is, beauty fades and some fellas will stop being affectionate as the lady’s beauty fades away. Women are just as guilty! However, the men who stop loving a woman because she is no longer as beautiful as she used to be after having kids are just plain wicked.
How dare you stop loving a woman after her beautiful physique fades away from having your children? You should motivate her and be her inspiration to get back in shape if you absolutely love what she looked like before having kids. Otherwise, love her as she is! She is still the lady you couldn’t take your eyes off. She is still the lady you chose over the rest of the women out there. More importantly, though she knew she wouldn’t look the same after having kids, she made the sacrifice to give you beautiful babies who will live to carry on your legacy. She’s the one who’ve been there for you through thick and thin. If you want a woman who will remain physically attractive, I say don’t get her pregnant at all or mistreat her. Treat her like a queen and take super good care of her that she may maintain her good looks until the both of you grow old together.
No matter how many young women you get the opportunity to be with, you will continue to grow old. Eventually, you will find yourself paying a fortune to support your thirst for young women because at certain point, you will be of no use to them in the bedroom; so in order for them to stay, you will have to pay. It also makes you a pervert. As sorry as it sounds, these type of men when they’ve reached their breaking point is when you’ll find them backtracking in effort to get back with the women they’ve previously dumped. How brilliant! I’m sure what they get in return are insults painful enough to just put them out of their misery.
Stick with the love of your life if you want a best friend life!