Is Being The Main Chick Good Enough?
Every woman who proudly defends her position as the main chick ironically becomes a side chick as well whenever her “man” is with the other woman.
I mean come on…let’s face it; why would you even confidently claim to be the main chick when the man has made you an option by sleeping with another woman? Though calling her a side chick may give you some sort of closure, that closure is a false one because you’re in denial.
The rest of the world sees TWO or MORE women in his life; not ONE. Besides, you can only be the MAIN CHICK if you are the ONLY CHICK and if you’re not the only chick, you can be history any day. You ladies downplay your value for cheap labels not even worth a clearance price tag and I’m saying this to women because girls don’t get it. They have way too much time on hand for love triangles.
One thing is for sure; I don’t care how much women who find themselves in love triangles profess that they are satisfied with their relationships as long as they are the “main chick”, a part of them will always wish they were the only chick. In private they are grieving and unhappy about their boyfriend, fiance, or husband’s involvement with another woman. Many of them as a matter of fact are not faithful to that man either because they are not truly happy and are in search of filling in the void created by the infidelity in their relationships.
One thing that makes this so sad sometimes is when the “main chick” gets furious after finding out that “her man” got the side chick pregnant. So why get mad then? LET IT BURN SWEETHEART. This is what you accepted perhaps unwillingly, but you knew it was going on and you sat there claiming the “main chick theory”. Chill out and don’t sweat whatever happens between the side chick and your man. After all, she has your permission to be in the picture.